I think I was unclear on "disappear myself"! I'm not leaving. :) I meant more.... to make myself transparent so that the focus is on Judah's wrongdoing and Scott's choices, not on whether or not people like me personally. I want my views there. But that blame-shifting is making it difficult.

I don't know what the best path is to the end goal right now.

I'm glad I have a con this weekend so I can - and have to - step back from this. I hope that'll help.