I don't deal well with being put on the spot. I like your rule, and I would be tempted to adopt it for myself, but I would include something like "at least 1 day before the party if at all possible" in it.
You've probably already considered that, but I thought I'd share it in case it was beneficial for others who like time to deliberate about things, even things their friends or family might think should be immediately obvious.
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Date: 2014-07-14 06:39 pm (UTC)You've probably already considered that, but I thought I'd share it in case it was beneficial for others who like time to deliberate about things, even things their friends or family might think should be immediately obvious.