A while back there was a series of postings about peoples' rules or guidelines for life. I'm wondering if you have similarly pithy rules for the job you do.
Having worked in environments like that I found that it was sufficient to be willing to participate in others' discussions of their personal lives. It's a form of misleading, since it tends to get them to think you're just like them - why else would you be willing to listen to their tales of bowling night or the kid's recital? - but isn't that the point.
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Date: 2007-04-17 02:35 pm (UTC)This is strongly dependent on the local culture of the workplace. In some workplaces, this is a very, very effective technique to isolate oneself.
This does, of course, become additionally complicated if one has a significantly non-standard lifestyle.
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Date: 2007-04-17 03:45 pm (UTC)