Today (actually I wrote this yesterday and failed to post it, then got bit by the can't-post bug) I met Mom's lawyer, who is now my co-executor. We've spoken by email and phone many times but never managed to meet her in person. I signed a lot of papers with my legal name. There's a lot to do and I'm glad Mom had a lawyer lined up to do them because I would not have known or would have forgotten.
( Details, hard details )Email went out
today yesterday about shiva: Saturday evening, Sunday afternoon and evening, Wednesday and Thursday evenings. I put the recipient list together as best I could in the circumstances. If I omitted you please forgive me and send an email; I'll forward you the details.